Premack Principle

Routines can become boring. You know you are an early childhood educator when your natural instinct is to sing during transitions. Recently I was giving directions and sang a tune while going through the steps. That is one way to make routines less boring for children. Another way to spice up daily routines for children is to embed natural reinforcers into the routines.

Doing the thing you need to do is followed by the thing you desire to do. That is a basic explanation of the Premack Principle. An example of Premack Principle is telling your child to do their homework first, and then they can join the neighborhood kids and jump on the trampoline in the backyard.

In his book “Atomic Habits,” James Clear talks about a coach he interviewed where he asked what sets really good athletes apart from others, and what do they do differently. The coach responded by saying that exceptional athletes are those that can overcome the boredom of training. Doing the same thing over and over while working toward something is often necessary to reach optimal performance and goals without the loss of motivation along the way. Motivating factors could be explored. Can we use this concept of Premack to prime the environment for routines?

I use the Premack Principle at home and work. We have a busy week in my household. When we move through Monday to Friday and do what we need to do, we get to do something fun at the end of our week. Friday afternoons I pick my daughter up from school and we meet up with friends at a coffee shop and knit. At work, I condition my writing practice with reinforcement. Once I complete a writing project, I buy myself a present. The Premack Principle is doing the thing I need to do, followed by the thing I really want. Sometimes the thing I need to do is already motivating and may not need a reinforcer, but other times natural or external reinforcement helps to stay motivated.

How can we leverage routine activities to promote child development and learning? We can support positive behaviors by understanding what motivates each child. Make routines more attractive by helping the child get what they want. Learn what the child desires and then create time in the schedule to make it happen once the child does what they need to do. Make the routine(s) fun for the child. Provide timely feedback integrated into the routine. We can support children’s behaviors by paying attention to routines.

Clear, J. (2018). Atomic habits. An easy and proven way to build good habits and break bad ones. New York: Penguin Random House.

“I Love You” Rituals

It started with a smash cake when she turned one. A layered sponge cake with pink frosting. The cake had dark shades of pink frosting on the top and gradually got to shades of light pink toward the bottom of the cake tower. Whipping cream was sandwiched between each layer.

This year she had a milestone birthday. I marked it by making a frozen vanilla cream cake topped with fresh strawberries. I found the recipe in the Nebraskaland magazine. Every year it is a different recipe, but the ritual remains.

Custom cake is one of the “I love you” rituals I do with my child. Baking for her is a way to show my daughter my love for her.

As an educator we show our children and their families love too.

“I love you” rituals can be the way we design our environments, create our curriculum, play, and more. The first week in April we have a ritual that shows children how much we love them when communities across America celebrate Week of the Young Child (WOYC). This “I love You” ritual has been going strong for 50+ years. Happy Birthday, WOYC! I love celebrating your birthday. And many more…!

Note: I wrote this for the Buffett Early Childhood Institute blog. Click on this link if you want to read it on the Buffett Institute website. Thank you Erin Duffy and Buffett team for inviting me to share this experience with your readers.

Establishing a Consistent Daily Schedule and Routines

It can be a challenge to create a consistent daily schedule and routines. Hough (2019) describes the importance of recognizing the struggle. Children, like us, need predictable routines and a daily schedule of events and activities that remain consistent. This alleviates stress. To implement predictable routines, analyze the daily schedule. Note what happens throughout the daily schedule. Determine where there are problem areas and times that seem to go smoothly, as well as times of the day that are challenging. Implement a plan to address the problem areas. Observe what happens when the plan is implemented by collecting informal and/or formal data. Avoid roadblocks by responding to data. Make data-driven decisions. Make changes when needed to modify schedule and/or routines. Routines can promote an environment that feels safe, secure, and welcoming (CESEFEL, 2007; Perry, 2000).

 

Sources: Center on the Social and Emotional Foundations for Early Learning. (2007). Helping Children Understand Routines and Classroom Schedules. Retrieved from http://csefel.vanderbilt.edu/kits/wwbtk3.pdf 

Hough, L. (2019) 5 Easy Steps to Helping Early Childhood Educators De Stress. Harvard Ed. Magazine. Retrieved from: https://www.gse.harvard.edu/news/ed/19/01/5-easy-steps-helping-early-childhood-educators-de-stress

 Perry, B. (2000). Creating an emotionally safe classroom. Scholastic. Retrieved from https://www.scholastic.com/teachers/articles/teaching-content/creating-emotionally-safe-classroom/

Stress

Tonight. I went for a run on my usual route that takes me by an early care and education center in my neighborhood. I watched tired parents picking up their tired children. Stress can occur anytime, but especially at the end of a long day. Stress is a powerful force (Macy, 2018). Research has shown that too much stress can change a child’s brain (Center on Developing Child, 2014; Evans & English, 2002; Murgia, 2015).

Transitions can be stressful for children, parents, and professionals.

Adults who are responsive to children’s needs pay attention to their cues, emotional states, basic needs, and more to support a bond. Responsive caregiving where the child has an adult give them individualized attention can reduce stress for children, as well as give them strategies for coping (Center on the Developing Child, 2017; Jones & Kahn, 2017; Scudellari, 2017). Now more than ever with stressful situations occurring as a result of the changing dynamics of the global pandemic, let us pay careful attention to stress children are experiencing, and support children as they change routines or adapt to new schedules.

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References

Center on the Developing Child (2014). Excessive stress disrupts the architecture of the developing brain. National Scientific Council on the Developing Child.

Center on the Developing Child (2017). Three principles to improve outcomes for children and families. Science to Policy and Practice.

Evans, G. W. & English, K. (2002). The environment of poverty: Multiple stressor exposure, psychophysiological stress, and socioemotional adjustment. Child Development, 73, 1238–1248. doi:10.1111/1467-8624.00469

Jones, S. & Kahn, J. (2017). The evidence base for how we learn: Supporting students’ social emotional and academic development. The Aspen Institute.

Macy, M. (2018). Stranger danger. Buttercup Blog.

Murgia, M. (2015). How Stress Affects Your Brain. YouTube video.

Scudellari, M. (2017). Preschoolers could have less stress if they get positive one-on-one time with teachers. The Boston Globe.

You Can Do It!

Create some art for home with our little ones. With families spending more time at home, here is an activity to do with children using recycled tin cans depending on the child’s age and/or developmental abilities.

Make animals from cans. Here my little one and I cleaned out our junk drawer and got things to glue on the cans to make owls. Be sure to set the activity up for safety and supervise children at all times. Can you have fun repurposing tin can. Yes! Yes, you CAN do it!

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Small Moments, Big Memories!

“Great things are done by a series of small things brought together.” ~Vincent Van Gogh

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I love the above quote by post-impressionist painter, Vincent Van Gogh. It reminds me that great things come from small beginnings. To me, I feel like Van Gogh was talking about the importance of tiny, little, miniature moments. Small things and moments that are brought together can make a big difference. It is the daily activities and routines that can have a meaningful impact on a child’s overall development. 

When I was little, mealtime routines were a big event at my home and school. Every night my family sat around the table to eat dinner together. At school, we sat at our desks during lunch time. Tucked into my 1970s Donny & Marie Osmond lunchbox was evidence of my mother’s love when I was at school. I was so proud of that lunchbox. A former cool whip container held homemade pasta and meatballs, piece of fruit, spoon, and washcloth. It wasn’t until some of the girls in my class made fun of my food that I became self-conscious about what was in my lunchbox. I started to feel embarrassed by the ethnic food my Italian family sent me to school with and the recycled vessels like cool whip containers and butter tubs. Today I feel embarrassed that I was embarrassed by my school lunch. I remember feeling like I wanted to fit in with the other kids and have a lunch of peanut butter and jelly on plain Wonder bread. When I became a teacher, I tried to help my students feel proud of their heritage and culture. It is who we are.

If you celebrate Valentine’s Day, I have an activity you can do that celebrates reusing and recycling common household objects (like my parents did with cool whip and butter tub containers). Take a container that holds plastic or aluminum wrap. Remove the contents and the jagged edge that cuts the wrap/film or aluminum. This should leave your box smooth and safe to now decorate to your hearts content. In this picture you can see we painted the box and added wallpaper to the top lid. You and your children can create yours any way you like. Play with creativity. Once you have your box beautifully decorated, fill it with a yummy treat. We rolled Oreo cookies in frosting and sprinkles.

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What would Van Gogh do? I think he would create lasting things. We can too. Create lasting memories out of the common daily activities and objects. During the pandemic many parents are looking for things to do with their little ones because we are spending so much more time together at home. Give children a scavenger hunt and have them find objects around the house that can be repurposed to create a Valentine’s gift ala the box of goodies. Reuse and recycle household object(s) to create beautiful artistic gifts for your loved ones. You can turn the small moment into a big memory for your child. Happy Valentine’s Day!

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Things to Consider as a Result of COVID-19

The vice provost of our university’s digital learning program, Dr. Thomas Cavanagh, wrote on Twitter that one of the lessons he has learned recently from this national experiment in remote teaching is that it is impossible to over-communicate.

I’m reminded of this lesson daily about communication. Effective communication is imperative even though we are physically distant from one another as we move our work to a virtual/remote format. The world has changed so much since the last time I wrote a blog entry. It feels like 327 years ago…but it was only about a month ago on March 1, 2020 when I was writing about bulletin boards.

A global pandemic has changed all of our lives. For me, I’m healthy and safe at home with my family. Yay! I am extremely grateful. The quarantine has been going well. I get to work from home teaching adults who are working on their undergraduate and graduate degrees in Child Development and Early Education. COVID-19 has changed how I interact and teach my students. I’m lucky to have the support and resources of my university to teach online.

In addition to the physical space, another thing that has changed for me is my work attire. I’ve added a new accessory to my work-from-home wardrobe. Virtual classroom teaching and virtual office hours attire for me now includes mouse ears. Yup, that’s me….

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Marisa Macy

I love my students and I love Disney so I’ve tried to stay positive by signaling happiness with the way I dress for virtual teaching. Luckily I have several sets of ears between my Disney wardrobe and my family’s wardrobe that they have agreed to share with me. Thank you, fam! Here’s a picture I took a while back at a store in Disney Springs where I shop for mouse ears. I am looking forward to the day I can go back there and shop.

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Another lesson that I’ve learned during this move to a virtual/remote format is how valuable it is to connect with people. Some ways I’ve been staying connected with others is through electronic communication, video conferencing, and phone calls. I haven’t talked this much on the phone since I was a teenager.

This global pandemic has been challenging for everyone. For my college students it has been rough on them in many ways. Students may not have the equipment and/or resources at home to fully function in an online capacity. Many students have had their final field experience disrupted and moved to a virtual/remote format. Several of my students did not even get a chance to say goodbye to the children they had been working with all semester which has been heartbreaking for them. Graduation celebrations have been postponed or canceled. I feel terrible that students may not get to experience the joy of walking across the stage at graduation and shaking our Dean’s hand at commencement. I’m so sorry for these and other things that are being missed out on as a result of the quarantine.

With so many things that have changed as a result of moving to remote/virtual format, we may find ourselves using time differently. Quarantine time may be an opportunity to add some professional activities that were hard to find time for before the global pandemic. I created this list with the help of my spring 2020 practicum students (thank you CB, JC, NF, EK, EP, KT, and JV … you guys have been such a pleasure getting to know better this semester!).

Here are things to consider if you are looking for ways to experience gratitude,  learn, and grow during COVID-19.

1.   Make a smile file. A recipe box with index cards are where I add things that happen I want to remember that make me happy. Here is an example of something that happened to me that is on an index card in my Smile File. What would you add to your file?

2.   Create a parent newsletter.

3.   Develop or revise program/agency handbook.

4.   Find ways to communicate with children and/or parents using other modalities. Learn or work on proficiency in other languages to include sign language.

5.  Create a resource list or binder.

6.  Work on curriculum or curricular enhancements.

7.   Attend virtual meetings, workshops, and/or trainings.

8.  Write reflection paper. Storyboard your ideas and experiences.

9.  Make a virtual bulletin board or design your future spaces.

10. Watch video clips on skills like positive behavior supports and other topics that enrich professional development.

11. Communicate with parents. Share tips and/or activities they can do with their child during quarantine.

12. Collaborate with related specialists (e.g., speech language pathologist, therapists, other), if applicable.

13. Set up a time to check in with others on a regular basis.

14. Participate in webinars that pertain to Early Education. I’ll be doing one on authentic assessment in May for Brookes Publishing. Stay tuned….

15. Make a parent letter/video/song/other of what parents can do at home with their children while they are away from school.

16. Look up different ideas and hands on activities to do with children. Here is an example of an art activity I love to do with my daughter.

17. Research and make program brochure.

18. Learn and use tools to implement developmental activities.

19. Create developmentally appropriate resources for parents to use during the COVID-19 quarantine.

This historical time in our lives is an opportunity for us to grow together. Right before the quarantine, I interviewed Mr. Bill Isler for the Buttercup iTunes show. Mr. Isler ran the Fred Rogers Productions Company and contributed and appears in the Tom Hanks movie about Mr. Rogers entitled, “A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood” (2019).

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Mr. Bill Isler

Mr. Isler shared some wonderful stories about his time with Mr. Rogers. One thing Mr. Rogers encouraged children to do is talk about their feelings and look for the helpers. Children and adults could all benefit by remembering kindness during these times and look for ways to not only survive but thrive during this difficult time. We will get through this together. Stay safe, stay connected, and look for the helpers, and/or become a helper. Wishing you good health!  

See ya real soon. Charge on!

Take Time

Effective communication does not just happen. We must take time to build trusting relationships with the families we serve. Here are some ways we can create meaningful relationships.  

1.     Introduce yourself. Share who you are with the family. Make first contact(s) positive.

2.     Use family friendly words to convey meaning. Avoid technical jargon.

3.     Tell the truth. Never lie or over-promise. Honesty is the basis of a trusting relationship.

4.     Maintain confidentiality. Keep sensitive information private. Do your best to control what you say and write when it comes to confidential information.  

5.     Put yourself in the family’s shoes. Taking the perspective of another can create empathy.

6.     Share resources. If you are aware of needs, you can share what you know and/or do research to locate resources for families.

7.     Build on family strengths (not deficits).

 Spend time each day connecting with parents and families. Checking in on a regular basis with parents can support the bond we have with the families we serve. Children benefit when we invest time in creating mutually beneficial partnerships.

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Sparklicious Snacks

I am forever looking for healthy recipes to make my family. Specifically, I am on the hunt for things to make children that are free of peanuts due to allergies. If you are looking for sparklicious snack ideas, look no further. Here are three recipes that your children might like.  

Bean Dip:

Open a can of your child’s favorite beans. Crush the beans after cleaning them. Add a dash of garlic powder, cumin, and lime juice (optional). Serve with carrot sticks.

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Yogurt Dipping Sauce:

Start with 1/2 cup (or 4 ounces) of fat free plain yogurt. Next, add the following ingredients to the yogurt: 1 teaspoon of honey, 1/8 teaspoon of cinnamon, 1/8 teaspoon of ginger, a dash of nutmeg and lemon juice. Serve it with your child’s favorite fruit.

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Ants on a Log:

Instead of peanut butter, use sun butter to spread on celery sticks. Sprinkle some raisins on top.

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Haircut

A child’s first haircut is an exciting time. It can also be scary for the child. Consider all the objects, smells, and activities that go on in a hair salon. Children may become overwhelmed. Select a time of day when the child is not tired and/or hungry. Children may feel comfortable bringing a familiar object from home. Assure the child s/he is safe, and the haircut will not hurt her/him. The following vignette offers an example of a child’s first haircut.

The scared little girl walked into the salon. A backpack full of toys, a doll, and dolly salon chair were comfort objects the child towed into the salon. “How-can-I help you,” asked the hairdresser.

“We are here for a first haircut,” said Mom.

“What is your name?” asked the hairdresser.

The little girl hid behind her Mom, looked at the floor, and did not respond.

Mom followed the hairdresser. The child followed Mom to the place where haircuts happen. The child saw the adult size chair that resembled her toy chair fully equipped with the hydraulic pump to make the chair go up or down. Even though there were familiar items in the salon, there were many peculiar arrangements of those familiar items. There were combs in jars with blue-green liquid on the counter. A big hair dryer like her Mom’s was sitting next to the counter in a big barrel with a long cord that resembled a snake. The unusual environment with the unfamiliar objects scared the child.

The hairdresser was wearing a black apron and offered the child a cape to wear. “I don’t want to wear that! It has buttons,” the child proclaimed. Ever since she turned three, she decided buttons are her enemy. Part of her wanted to wear the cape. After all, superheroes wear capes. Plus it had exotic animals from the savannah on the special cape. A zebra, giraffe, cheetah, and lion peered between stripes on the silky cape with buttons. “No thank you!” replied a conflicted child on the offer to wear the cape. “No worries. You do not have to wear the cape,” said the hairdresser as she put the cape on the counter.

Next, she grabbed a booster seat. She asked Mom if she would like to hold the child or if the child would like to sit in the booster seat. That is when it happened. She started to cry. It was a raw shriek that got the attention of everyone in the salon. All eyes looked at the child now. The unfamiliar environment, strange objects, the cape, and now this expectation she sit in a chair high up off the ground was too much to take!

She was afraid of getting into the chair. Will the hairdresser hurt me? What is she going to do with those weird, shiny knives she has on her fingers? What is the strange smell in here? Why do I need to have a haircut in the first place? Tears streamed down her face as she sat on the floor with her toys all around her.

The hairdresser sat down on the hairy floor with the child. They started talking about Samantha, the American Girl doll the child brought from home. “How do you like to do Samantha’s hair?” asked the hairdresser.

“I like to brush her hair. Then I pull her hair back with these barrettes,” instructed the child.

The two talked and played with the comforting toys from home.

The child was feeling safe now with the hairdresser. She was also having fun playing.

“Would you like to play on my chair and see it go up into the air?” asked the hairdresser.

“Yeah!” answered the child excitedly as she jumped from the floor and into the hydraulic chair.

The hairdresser spritzed her hair so it would be wet. She used her comb to get the tangles out. Last, she used her superhero scissors to create an artistic masterpiece. When it was all done, the hairdresser gave Mom strands of hair to keep as a memento. This was a special milestone. The first haircut!

Marisa's Chicken Cheetos

Have you ever wanted to make something for dinner only to discover a half hour before mealtime that you do not have the correct ingredients? It is frustrating. My family likes baked chicken cutlets. I was about to prepare the cutlets one night for dinner when I realized I ran out of Panko bread crumbs, and had no bread to make bread crumbs. What’s a Mommy to do?

A bag of Cheetos was in the pantry. I figured the orange-dyed, jagged, crunchy delicacies might work the same way bread crumbs do. So I pulverized (I love this word but awkward to use in daily conversation) what was left of the Cheetos bag to create a crumb mixture. Chicken and Cheetos? Who knew!

Marisa Macy’s Chicken Cheetos

Ingredients:

3-4 boneless, skinless chicken tenderloins

2 eggs

1 cup of Cheetos crumbs (to make: pulverize a small bag of Cheetos in a Cuisinart)

Directions: Cut chicken tenderloins into strips or nuggets. Coat the chicken with the egg wash. Then dip the egg-coated chicken into the Cheetos crumbs. Place chicken onto a glass baking dish or cookie sheet that has been greased with olive oil. Bake in the oven at 350 degrees for about 30 minutes or until done. Buon Appetito! 

Ice Cream

Nothing says summer quite like ice cream. It can be licked, bitten, slurped through a straw, spooned and shoveled. It comes in many flavors. It is cold and refreshing on a hot day.

But there is something about ice cream and young children that can be confounding. How can a child eat only two bites and be done?

Researchers at Penn State University have a line of research I call the Mac-n-Cheese Study where they experimented with how young children clean their plates. They found that preschoolers typically eat about 1/3 of their food, or 186 calories, when given a one cup portion of macaroni and cheese. But, when given a two cup portion of the "comfort" food the kids ate about 1/2 of their food, or 258 calories.

The more food the adults put on the plate, the more the preschoolers ate.

Larger portions encourage overeating. Avoid portion distortion by placing too much food on their plates. Youngsters do not need membership in the clean-your-plate club. Kids may be done after a couple of bites.

Instead of encouraging eating all of their ice cream the next time I hear a child say they are full after a couple of licks… I will celebrate with song by singing my Dad’s favorite tune for the occasion:

I scream!

You scream!

We all scream for ICE CREAM!

The leftover ice cream can be saved in the freezer for another day.

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