Stress

Tonight. I went for a run on my usual route that takes me by an early care and education center in my neighborhood. I watched tired parents picking up their tired children. Stress can occur anytime, but especially at the end of a long day. Stress is a powerful force (Macy, 2018). Research has shown that too much stress can change a child’s brain (Center on Developing Child, 2014; Evans & English, 2002; Murgia, 2015).

Transitions can be stressful for children, parents, and professionals.

Adults who are responsive to children’s needs pay attention to their cues, emotional states, basic needs, and more to support a bond. Responsive caregiving where the child has an adult give them individualized attention can reduce stress for children, as well as give them strategies for coping (Center on the Developing Child, 2017; Jones & Kahn, 2017; Scudellari, 2017). Now more than ever with stressful situations occurring as a result of the changing dynamics of the global pandemic, let us pay careful attention to stress children are experiencing, and support children as they change routines or adapt to new schedules.

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References

Center on the Developing Child (2014). Excessive stress disrupts the architecture of the developing brain. National Scientific Council on the Developing Child.

Center on the Developing Child (2017). Three principles to improve outcomes for children and families. Science to Policy and Practice.

Evans, G. W. & English, K. (2002). The environment of poverty: Multiple stressor exposure, psychophysiological stress, and socioemotional adjustment. Child Development, 73, 1238–1248. doi:10.1111/1467-8624.00469

Jones, S. & Kahn, J. (2017). The evidence base for how we learn: Supporting students’ social emotional and academic development. The Aspen Institute.

Macy, M. (2018). Stranger danger. Buttercup Blog.

Murgia, M. (2015). How Stress Affects Your Brain. YouTube video.

Scudellari, M. (2017). Preschoolers could have less stress if they get positive one-on-one time with teachers. The Boston Globe.

Play Goals

Play skills are an important part of a child’s growth and development. Play is meant to be fun, however in group settings play can be difficult for children. One of the things that might make play a challenge for young children is being able to navigate the environment and social interactions with adults and peers during free play time. “For some children, self-direction is not a problem, but for some children with special needs, especially those with autism, self-direction in relation to play and leisure time may be difficult” (Sundberg, 2008, p. 143).

After observing a child and conducting an assessment, we can create play goals for a child. It would be helpful to select the skills where the child shows emergent behaviors in this area of development.

If a child is having difficulty with self-directed play, here are some instructional targets with corresponding behavioral objectives. Here are some possible play goals for “Marisa” (Bricker et al. 2022). 

1.      During free play time with peers, Marisa will use language to initiate a social interaction with peers at least once a day using words, gestures, motor actions, communication board, and/or cards.

2.      During free play time with peers, Marisa will use language to sustain a social interaction with peers at least once a day using words, gestures, motor actions, communication board, and/or cards.

3.      During free play time, Marisa will use conversational rules when communicating with adults in at least one communicative exchange daily.

4.      During free play time, Marisa will use conversational rules when communicating with peers in at least one communicative exchange daily.

5.      During free play time, Marisa will communicate personal likes and/or dislikes using either verbal or non-verbal strategies with adults and peers.

Once the goals have been created for the child, Marisa, the next phase is for educators to implement instruction/intervention to help the child reach their goals. Mr. Fred Rogers said, “Play gives children a chance to practice what they are learning.” We can support children as they learn to engage in self-directed play by creating goals for play and then monitoring how the child is responding.

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Play

“Play gives children a chance to practice what they are learning.”~Mr. Rogers

References:

Bricker, D., Dionne, C., Grisham, J., Johnson, J.J., Macy, M., Slentz, K., & Waddell, M. (2022). Assessment, Evaluation, and Programming System for Infants and Children, Third Edition (AEPS®-3). Baltimore: Brookes Publishing Co.

Sundberg, M. L. (2008). Verbal behavior milestones assessment and placement program. Concord, CA: AVB Press.

Intended Purpose

Have you ever tried to make a cup of hot chocolate but when you went to the cupboard you did not have cocoa mix? Well it happened to me. I recently wanted to drink a yummy cup of hot chocolate only to find that there was none in my house.

What’s a person to do?! Well I had some baking cocoa. I thought why not try baking cocoa and see if I could make hot chocolate with baking cocoa.

Hmmmmmmmm????

What a disaster! Do not try this unless you want to have caked on bitter cocoa stuck to your teeth! It tasted horrible.

I was trying to use an ingredient for something other than its intended purpose.

Baking cocoa is meant to go into recipes like cookies, NOT make a delicious cup of hot chocolate.

 

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I learned something important that day and that is to use ingredients and materials for their intended purpose. When I substituted baking cocoa for hot chocolate mix it did not work. Major FAIL!

Similarly, when we assess children we want to use assessment tools for their intended purpose. For example, using a diagnostic assessment would not work well if we wanted to do ongoing assessment of individual children over time to see how well they are learning/developing and responding to their early childhood curriculum and instruction. The best tool for that purpose would be a curriculum-based assessment (CBA). My colleagues and I are publishing a new edition of a widely used CBA called the AEPS3® (Bricker, Dionne, Grisham, Johnson, Macy, Slentz, & Waddell, 2022) for infants, toddlers, preschoolers, and kindergarteners. It would be a useful tool if the intention is gather information about children’s development and learning, as well as have a curriculum to use with instruction.

When assessment is used for the intended purpose, results can be meaningful for children.

 

Source:

Bricker, D., Dionne, C., Grisham, J., Johnson, J.J., Macy, M., Slentz, K., & Waddell, M. (2022). Assessment, Evaluation, and Programming System for Infants and Children, Third Edition (AEPS®-3). Baltimore: Brookes Publishing Co.

You Can Do It!

Create some art for home with our little ones. With families spending more time at home, here is an activity to do with children using recycled tin cans depending on the child’s age and/or developmental abilities.

Make animals from cans. Here my little one and I cleaned out our junk drawer and got things to glue on the cans to make owls. Be sure to set the activity up for safety and supervise children at all times. Can you have fun repurposing tin can. Yes! Yes, you CAN do it!

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Small Moments, Big Memories!

“Great things are done by a series of small things brought together.” ~Vincent Van Gogh

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I love the above quote by post-impressionist painter, Vincent Van Gogh. It reminds me that great things come from small beginnings. To me, I feel like Van Gogh was talking about the importance of tiny, little, miniature moments. Small things and moments that are brought together can make a big difference. It is the daily activities and routines that can have a meaningful impact on a child’s overall development. 

When I was little, mealtime routines were a big event at my home and school. Every night my family sat around the table to eat dinner together. At school, we sat at our desks during lunch time. Tucked into my 1970s Donny & Marie Osmond lunchbox was evidence of my mother’s love when I was at school. I was so proud of that lunchbox. A former cool whip container held homemade pasta and meatballs, piece of fruit, spoon, and washcloth. It wasn’t until some of the girls in my class made fun of my food that I became self-conscious about what was in my lunchbox. I started to feel embarrassed by the ethnic food my Italian family sent me to school with and the recycled vessels like cool whip containers and butter tubs. Today I feel embarrassed that I was embarrassed by my school lunch. I remember feeling like I wanted to fit in with the other kids and have a lunch of peanut butter and jelly on plain Wonder bread. When I became a teacher, I tried to help my students feel proud of their heritage and culture. It is who we are.

If you celebrate Valentine’s Day, I have an activity you can do that celebrates reusing and recycling common household objects (like my parents did with cool whip and butter tub containers). Take a container that holds plastic or aluminum wrap. Remove the contents and the jagged edge that cuts the wrap/film or aluminum. This should leave your box smooth and safe to now decorate to your hearts content. In this picture you can see we painted the box and added wallpaper to the top lid. You and your children can create yours any way you like. Play with creativity. Once you have your box beautifully decorated, fill it with a yummy treat. We rolled Oreo cookies in frosting and sprinkles.

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What would Van Gogh do? I think he would create lasting things. We can too. Create lasting memories out of the common daily activities and objects. During the pandemic many parents are looking for things to do with their little ones because we are spending so much more time together at home. Give children a scavenger hunt and have them find objects around the house that can be repurposed to create a Valentine’s gift ala the box of goodies. Reuse and recycle household object(s) to create beautiful artistic gifts for your loved ones. You can turn the small moment into a big memory for your child. Happy Valentine’s Day!

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“Children are NOW!”

It happened. The year that brought so much unhappiness to many people around the globe has passed. Goodbye, 2020. Hello, 2021. They say, “Time heals all wounds.” Hopefully, over time the suffering and pain from 2020 will subside. Hopeful for the future. One of my favorite Italian words that reflects this sense of hope is avanti—full steam ahead.

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During the global pandemic I had the privilege of learning from people from around the world about issues impacting young children and their families resulting from COVID-19. The diverse group was brought together by UNESCO. An advocate for children’s rights and humanitarian issues, Princess Laurentien of the Netherlands said, “Children are NOW!” She said she was fed up with people saying, “children are the future.” I am hopeful NOW for the road ahead, because I know how resilient we are. Children are NOW!

HRH Laurentien of the Netherlands

HRH Laurentien of the Netherlands

In addition to child advocates, filmmakers have done incredible work to help better understand children NOW. If you’re interested in checking out their films which explore child development, I’ve got three to share with you.

1. “Becoming You”

2. “Babies”

3. “7Up”

Becoming You” is available on Apple+ and released in 2020. This docuseries focuses on the first 2,000 days of life. The Becoming You series is directed by the creative brain of Tom Barbor-Might. His cinematic skills takes us on a visually stunning journey. Becoming You is narrated by Olivia Colman who plays the Queen in the “Crown.” There is one season of Becoming You with a total of six episodes which I’ve described next and indicated how long the episode runs.

1.     Who am I? (39 minutes)

2.     Moving (43 minutes)

3.     Making Friends (43 minutes)

4.     Feeling (41 minutes)

5.     Talking (41 minutes)

6.     Thinking (41 minutes)

All six episodes of Becoming You are fabulous but my favorite is the one about talking. Check it out and learn about the “Seuss boost,” what the brain thinks about rhymes, multilingualism, how deaf families use hand babbling with their babies learning sign language, and the amazing little girl named Riley who is from South Florida. My friend told me about this resource. I hope you tell your friends too. Thank you for always thinking of me to pass on this cool stuff, Tonya Schadle.

Babies” is available on Netflix and released in 2020. This docuseries is focused on research related to child development. The latest and state-of-the-art research is presented in an interesting way with relevant information parents and early childhood educators can use. Like the Becoming You docuseries, the Babies docuseries will take you around the World to gorgeous countries. In addition to the on-location sites, Babies and Becoming You will introduce you to the most precious children and their families. What a treat to meet these people who are sharing their homes, culture, and languages with us viewers. There are two seasons of Babies with a total of twelve episodes which I’ve described next and indicated how long the episode runs.

Part 1.

1.     Love (48 minutes)

2.     First Food (52 minutes)

3.     Crawling (53 minutes)

4.     First Words (51 minutes)

5.     Sleep (49 minutes)

6.     First Steps (50 minutes)

Part 2.

1.     What Babies Know (55 minutes)

2.     Movement (53 minutes)

3.     Senses (50 minutes)

4.     Relationships (52 minutes)

5.     Nature and Nurture (47 minutes)

6.     Toddlers (46 minutes)

7Up” is available on Amazon and/or other places where you get your documentaries. The Up Series is directed by Michael Apted who sadly died on Friday at the age of 79. Apted started this series in 1964. He and his team followed the same children over time into adulthood. Every 7 years the conversations with participants would pick up where it left off. We get to know 14 British children who are interviewed by Apted in seven year intervals. There are multiple episodes of the Up Series which I’ve described next and indicated how long the episode runs.

1.     1964 – 7 Up (31 minutes)

2.     1970 – 14 Up (53 minutes)

3.     1977 – 21 Up (100 minutes)

4.     1984 – 28 Up (40 minutes) Part 1

5.     1984 – 28 Up (62 minutes) Part 2

6.     1984 – 28 Up (74 minutes) Part 3

7.     1991 – 35 Up (116 minutes)

8.     1998 – 42 Up (134 minutes)

9.     2005 – 49 Up (136 minutes)

10.2012 – 56 Up (47 minutes) Part 1

11.2012 – 56 Up (47 minutes) Part 2

12.2012 – 56 Up (50 minutes) Part 3

13.2019 – 63 Up (47 minutes)

I first started watching the Up Series when I was a graduate student at the University of Oregon in the early 2000s. One of my professors recommended it to me when we were discussing longitudinal research designs. I was hooked.

“Becoming You,” “Babies,” and “7Up” examine issues related to early childhood development. Do yourself a favor and take a master class by watching one, two, or all these fantastic docuseries in 2021. What will we do with what we know? We must address the needs of young children NOW. Avanti!

Salt Dough Ornament

Looking for something fun to do with the amazing children in your life. How about a fun craft?! I recently made salt dough ornaments with my little one. Here is what we did.

First, we made the dough (recipe below).

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Second, we shaped the dough into creative shapes. We used cookie cutters, ravioli wheel cutter, and our fingers and hands. If you want to capture your little ones’ feet and hands this makes a great keepsake.

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Third, we baked the ornaments on low heat for several hours (oven at 250 for about 2 hours).  Then we let the baked ornaments rest on the kitchen countertop overnight.

Fourth, the next day we decorated our homemade salt dough ornaments. You can use a glue/water glaze or Modge Podge to preserve your art.

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Wishing you the joy of the season with time spent with family and children.

Love,

Marisa

 

Salt Dough Recipe

2 cups all purpose flour

1 cup of salt

1 cup of water

Thank you, Dolly!

“I always just thought if you see somebody without a smile, give'em yours!” ~Dolly Parton

The scent of turkey is starting to permeate the house as I pluck at letters to make words with only the twinkling tree and computer screen lighting my way across the keyboard. I’m waiting for the rest of my family to wake up. Today is Thanksgiving! With abundant gratitude I reflect on my blessings. I am grateful for my husband of 21 years, my precious daughter, my Mom and Dad, my two brothers, my 4 nieces and 4 nephews, in-laws, extended family members in America and Italy, and friends. I am especially grateful during this health crisis for my own good health, and the health of my family and friends. I am grateful for my students, colleagues, and work. I have so much to be grateful for this Thanksgiving.

Before the day is over, people will start holiday shopping. Gift exchange season is upon us. This year might look different for many of us because of the global pandemic and health crisis. Instead of giving and receiving presents in person, many will be going to our mailbox and using postal and delivery services for exchanging holiday presents and cards. 

Parents and children in the US and other countries will be going to their mailbox and they will receive presents from the musician - Ms. Dolly Parton. The gifts she gives children every month are…BOOKS! Glorious books! The Imagination Library is a foundation that Dolly started in honor of her Father.

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For over 20 years, the Imagination Library gifts children with books once a month. A personalized book with the child’s name is mailed to their family’s home. Children continue to receive these monthly books from birth until they go to Kindergarten. Dolly’s early literacy gift can help children learn language, letter sounds, story elements, and so much more.

I got to talk with Mr. David Dotson, CEO of the Imagination Library, on a recent episode of the BUTTERCUP podcast. Check it out and hear what he said about Dolly’s wish, where the logo from the library comes from, how Dolly and David work with authors and publishers to deliver books to children, pursuing a career in the non-profit world, and the story of the Imagination Library. There will also be a premiere of the Imagination Library documentary on Dec. 9th at 7pm on Facebook that Mr. Dotson shared on the podcast. Mark your calendar.

David Dotson, CEO of Imagination Library

David Dotson, CEO of Imagination Library

This season I am so grateful for gift givers, like Dolly and David, and want to be sure to communicate my gratitude. Time for me to start writing my THANK YOU letters to David Dotson, Dolly Parton, and the Imagination Library team who give the gift of early literacy to children. Thank you for your thoughtful and generous gift of books. Thank you all so much!

Dolly Parton, Founder of Imagination Library

Dolly Parton, Founder of Imagination Library



Child Find via Mail

Today is my last blog of a four-part series on Child Find activities that are virtual and/or remote. Last month (September), I wrote about doing a virtual home visit for Child Find. In July, I wrote about how to do Child Find using an online system. In May, I wrote about using a phone for Child Find efforts.

The previous three Child Find virtual/remote activities involved some form of technology and/or electronics.  Good old fashioned snail mail will be today’s topic for conducting Child Find when face-to-face options are unavailable, unsafe, or unrealistic.

Connecting children with services is a critical concern in the face of the global pandemic resulting from the Coronavirus. Child Find is a system that focuses on early identification of delays and/or disabilities in children. In America, Child Find has been in existence since 1975 when Public Law 94-142, the Education for All Handicapped Children’s Act was passed by congress. Today we call this law the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA). The intent of IDEA Child Find is, “to create and implement a system to actively locate…children with disabilities.” There are many ways to actively locate children who may be eligible for IDEA services due to a delay or disability. One way is through developmental screening through the postal system or mail delivery.

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If someone close to the child (e.g., parent, family member, familiar caregiver) has a concern, they can contact their local provider(s) who could follow up on their concern by conducting a developmental screening assessment  via mail. Yes, I said mail. Remember envelopes, stamps, and paper?!?! Are you thinking this sounds outdated? Maybe. Maybe not.

Professionals conducting Child Find efforts from a distance may find the postal service a useful tool as an alternative to face-to-face options. A procedure for Child Find by mail would be where staff mail a developmental questionnaire to the child’s address on record. Parent(s) and/or familiar caregiver(s) complete the developmental questionnaire and mail back to the staff or central location for scoring and feedback.

Special considerations should be made for children and families experiencing homelessness. Three other considerations are: (a) provide postage so parents do not have to worry about paying to mail the return envelope to the Child Find professional, (b) have the correct mailing address for families, and (c) keep in mind that this method of Child Find takes time for deliveries and there could be problems with sending and receiving the physical mail from the postal service. Return rates for questionnaires can be increased with a variety of strategies, for example making reminder phone calls to parents and sending a second questionnaire and reminder if the first one isn’t returned.

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For more information, check out the Child Find book (above) and/or a webinar I made called “Child Find: Identifying Children for IDEA Services in a Remote and Virtual Context.” I made this webinar for the Brookes Coffee Chat series and it is now available on demand at the following link:

https://brookespublishing.com/resource-library/child-find-identifying-children-for-idea-services-in-a-remote-and-virtual-context/

Pandemic-style Graduation

As I sit here at my laptop to write this, I am filled with so much hope for the future. You see last night we had our university graduation for summer 2020 graduates. It was virtual. It was a pandemic-style graduation. Of course (I hate you, COVID-19). Students did not gather in a big facility with their friends and families to celebrate their big accomplishments. Nope. They did not get to walk across the stage, shake our Dean’s hand, and hear many people wish them “Congratulations.” Nope. In this age of the Coronavirus, a graduate is more likely to see their name scroll across a screen as they squint to see acknowledgment of their achievement on an electronic device. It saddens my heart. But still I’m hopeful for the future.

“Oh the places you will go.” (with photoshop)

“Oh the places you will go.” (with photoshop)

Picture it (yes I’m channeling Sofia from Golden Girls) late spring 2020 and you have one more semester left before you can graduate with your degree. As of spring break your university has moved fully online and virtual. You had plans to do your summer Practicum and graduate in August 2020. Your professor calls you on the phone (how 1998 of her). She says she has good news and bad news. Good news first: “we are approved to do summer Practicum.” Yay! You can still graduate in August you might be thinking. But WAIT. Bad news is, “Practicum is fully online and virtual.” Huh? That doesn’t fit with what I’ve been planning or envisioning for my final field experience. What about the children? What about families? What about learning from my on-site supervisor and other professionals? What about all the things I was hoping to do?

So many disappointments. I hate you, COVID-19!

Okay, the show must go on. Practicum is different from what was planned, but look at the new things that I got to do as a result of this unexpected turn of events. I’m learning about children’s needs during a global pandemic. I’m learning how to connect with parents and other professionals in new ways. I’m learning that I am a strong and resilient person who is capable of taking what life throws at me and not only survive but THRIVE!

As I take a sip of cold tea and look down at my dry chapped hands (20 seconds people!), I realize how happy I am thinking about this summer semester with my students. I sit here inspired by ALL of their accomplishments. Each student overcame a lot to be waking up on this cloudy and windy Florida Sunday morning after their pandemic-style graduation waiting for what might be a visit from hurricane Isaias (okay, COVID-19 has nothing to do with Isaias but I still hate you anyway COVID-19). They have earned a college degree! They did it! Wow! Inspirational. Yesterday, 16 of my undergraduate students earned a Bachelor of Science degree in Early Childhood Development & Education (ECDE), and 4 graduate students earned a Master’s of Science degree in ECDE. Many of these amazing college students even graduated with honors (minus the cords and other recognition - I hate you, COVID-19!). One of my students said, “A global pandemic could NOT stop my education.” Take that, COVID-19! Charge on!

“Oh the places you will go.” (with photoshop)

“Oh the places you will go.” (with photoshop)

“Oh the places you will go.” (with photoshop)

“Oh the places you will go.” (with photoshop)

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Homemade Play-dough

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The power of play-dough cannot be underestimated in keeping little hands busy, but did you know there are developmental benefits children get from playing with play-dough?

Here are some potential benefits of playing with play-dough.

Fine motor- making a recipe and manipulating the dough builds children’s eye hand coordination. They use their fingers and hands in child directed play.

Cognitive- children can make the play-dough from a recipe to practice math when they measure ingredients. They use their problem solving skills to experiment and discover what they can do. Children can create cool things with their dough. Children exercise their imagination when playing and creating.

Communication- children use their receptive language skills to understand what others are saying when they do the activity with others, and use their expressive language skills when the communicate with others.

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Here is my favorite recipe for homemade play-dough with only 4 simple ingredients.

2 cups flour

1/2 cup salt

2 teaspoons of vegetable oil

1/2-3/4  warm water

Do this: Mix flour and salt in a bowl. Then add the oil and water. If you want, you can add essential oil and/or food coloring.

Have fun with children when making and playing with homemade play-dough.

Lavender scented play-dough

Lavender scented play-dough

Things to Consider as a Result of COVID-19

The vice provost of our university’s digital learning program, Dr. Thomas Cavanagh, wrote on Twitter that one of the lessons he has learned recently from this national experiment in remote teaching is that it is impossible to over-communicate.

I’m reminded of this lesson daily about communication. Effective communication is imperative even though we are physically distant from one another as we move our work to a virtual/remote format. The world has changed so much since the last time I wrote a blog entry. It feels like 327 years ago…but it was only about a month ago on March 1, 2020 when I was writing about bulletin boards.

A global pandemic has changed all of our lives. For me, I’m healthy and safe at home with my family. Yay! I am extremely grateful. The quarantine has been going well. I get to work from home teaching adults who are working on their undergraduate and graduate degrees in Child Development and Early Education. COVID-19 has changed how I interact and teach my students. I’m lucky to have the support and resources of my university to teach online.

In addition to the physical space, another thing that has changed for me is my work attire. I’ve added a new accessory to my work-from-home wardrobe. Virtual classroom teaching and virtual office hours attire for me now includes mouse ears. Yup, that’s me….

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Marisa Macy

I love my students and I love Disney so I’ve tried to stay positive by signaling happiness with the way I dress for virtual teaching. Luckily I have several sets of ears between my Disney wardrobe and my family’s wardrobe that they have agreed to share with me. Thank you, fam! Here’s a picture I took a while back at a store in Disney Springs where I shop for mouse ears. I am looking forward to the day I can go back there and shop.

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Another lesson that I’ve learned during this move to a virtual/remote format is how valuable it is to connect with people. Some ways I’ve been staying connected with others is through electronic communication, video conferencing, and phone calls. I haven’t talked this much on the phone since I was a teenager.

This global pandemic has been challenging for everyone. For my college students it has been rough on them in many ways. Students may not have the equipment and/or resources at home to fully function in an online capacity. Many students have had their final field experience disrupted and moved to a virtual/remote format. Several of my students did not even get a chance to say goodbye to the children they had been working with all semester which has been heartbreaking for them. Graduation celebrations have been postponed or canceled. I feel terrible that students may not get to experience the joy of walking across the stage at graduation and shaking our Dean’s hand at commencement. I’m so sorry for these and other things that are being missed out on as a result of the quarantine.

With so many things that have changed as a result of moving to remote/virtual format, we may find ourselves using time differently. Quarantine time may be an opportunity to add some professional activities that were hard to find time for before the global pandemic. I created this list with the help of my spring 2020 practicum students (thank you CB, JC, NF, EK, EP, KT, and JV … you guys have been such a pleasure getting to know better this semester!).

Here are things to consider if you are looking for ways to experience gratitude,  learn, and grow during COVID-19.

1.   Make a smile file. A recipe box with index cards are where I add things that happen I want to remember that make me happy. Here is an example of something that happened to me that is on an index card in my Smile File. What would you add to your file?

2.   Create a parent newsletter.

3.   Develop or revise program/agency handbook.

4.   Find ways to communicate with children and/or parents using other modalities. Learn or work on proficiency in other languages to include sign language.

5.  Create a resource list or binder.

6.  Work on curriculum or curricular enhancements.

7.   Attend virtual meetings, workshops, and/or trainings.

8.  Write reflection paper. Storyboard your ideas and experiences.

9.  Make a virtual bulletin board or design your future spaces.

10. Watch video clips on skills like positive behavior supports and other topics that enrich professional development.

11. Communicate with parents. Share tips and/or activities they can do with their child during quarantine.

12. Collaborate with related specialists (e.g., speech language pathologist, therapists, other), if applicable.

13. Set up a time to check in with others on a regular basis.

14. Participate in webinars that pertain to Early Education. I’ll be doing one on authentic assessment in May for Brookes Publishing. Stay tuned….

15. Make a parent letter/video/song/other of what parents can do at home with their children while they are away from school.

16. Look up different ideas and hands on activities to do with children. Here is an example of an art activity I love to do with my daughter.

17. Research and make program brochure.

18. Learn and use tools to implement developmental activities.

19. Create developmentally appropriate resources for parents to use during the COVID-19 quarantine.

This historical time in our lives is an opportunity for us to grow together. Right before the quarantine, I interviewed Mr. Bill Isler for the Buttercup iTunes show. Mr. Isler ran the Fred Rogers Productions Company and contributed and appears in the Tom Hanks movie about Mr. Rogers entitled, “A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood” (2019).

Mr. Bill Isler

Mr. Bill Isler

Mr. Isler shared some wonderful stories about his time with Mr. Rogers. One thing Mr. Rogers encouraged children to do is talk about their feelings and look for the helpers. Children and adults could all benefit by remembering kindness during these times and look for ways to not only survive but thrive during this difficult time. We will get through this together. Stay safe, stay connected, and look for the helpers, and/or become a helper. Wishing you good health!  

See ya real soon. Charge on!

I LOVE Bulletin Boards

I LOVE bulletin boards. There. I said it.

Some people collect objects. I collect pictures of bulletin boards. My students and friends send me pictures of bulletin boards to add to my collection. If you’re reading this and thinking, “Marisa Macy sure is strange” then you are 100% correct, my friend!

Bulletin boards are more than just the visual version of background noise in a busy school, classroom, hallway, or on a door.  To me bulletin boards are sources of beauty and inspiration. A masterpiece is created with just some paper, scissors, tape, push pins, and glue. Bulletin boards are gorgeous works of art that hang in an educational setting for a short time before they are torn down and replaced with a new one. Unlike Leonardo Da Vinci’s “Mona Lisa” with a permanent placement hanging in the Louvre, bulletin boards are only here for a short time. Maybe that is part of what makes them so special to me…the temporary nature of this art form. Beauty is found in the impermanence.

Here are some bulletin boards that I adore. Thank you to these bulletin board artists. Enjoy!

“Parenting is a Participation Sport”

On a recent episode of the Buttercup podcast, my guest Mr. Art Sims said that “parenting is a participation sport.” He was talking about balancing work and life while raising 5 awesome children. Mr. Sims shared how being present in children’s lives matters. Laughter and being present are important in leaving a legacy for children, described Mr. Sims.

I have been thinking about his words, and wondering how to become more present. Being distracted is the enemy of presence. As adults it is easy for us to get distracted with work and other responsibilities.

“Phubbing” is nothing new. Growing up, it was common for me to hear phrases like, “shh, I’m on the phone,” “be quiet kids this is a long distance call from (fill in the blank),” and “I’m trying to talk on the phone here.” We had a phone that was attached to the wall and had a curly cord that made it impossible for my parents to talk on the phone more than 2 feet from the wall. Calls were usually brief because of the discomfort of holding the phone in the crook of one’s neck. “Phubbing” is where someone is snubbed by another with their phone.

Ph (phone) + snub = phub. Phubbing can occur when we focus on phones and ignore the humans in our presence. Today us parents have so many more things we can do with our phones that make it more challenging if we use the smart phone with our children present. I remembered something Mother Teresa of Calcutta said that to change the world, go home and love your family. Parenting is a participation sport where our children thrive on engagement.

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Do your eyes light up?

Do your eyes light up?

“When a child walks in a room, your child or anybody else’s child, do your eyes light up? That’s what they’re looking for.” ~Toni Morrison

Such a provocative question asked by author Toni Morrison. For those of us who have children in our lives, it is a question that can guide our intentions.

Every morning at my daughter’s school, staff greet all children who enter the school house. It is almost like a receiving line at a wedding but here administrators, staff, and community safety leaders welcome children with smiles, “Good Morning!” & hi fives . Such a wonderful start to the day. Greetings are an important ritual that can create a positive climate. Disney does this too when you step on board the ship to set sail on a cruise. They have a staff that clap when names are announced upon entrance.

Do your eyes light up? Absolutely! We are intentional with showing children we care about them.

Lanterns light up the night in Morocco.